Bonfire night at Holly House

It’s taken us five years to do it, but this year we celebrated bonfire night together round a fire, with mulled wine, winter punch and parkin. We had  sparklers and plenty of laughs – especially when Jon’s ‘noiseless’ fireworks proved ear-splittingly loud (that salesman really saw you coming Jon!) and we sat around the fire sharing poignant thoughts, images, poems and  blessings. We also watched Rob Bell’s Nooma DVD ‘Breathe’ in a brief foray indoors to another real fire – which combines the story  of the burning bush with the idea that we are always on holy ground as each of us breathes God’s name YHWH…

Here are some images of our evening together and a couple of the prayers:

A new lookOur name in lights

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I live today Through the strength of heaven; Light of the sun, Splendour of fire, Swiftness of wind, Brightness of the Moon, Firmness of Earth.

I live today Through God’s strength; God’s might to uphold me, God’s wisdom to guide me, God’s hand to guard me.

Afar or near, Alone or in multitudes.

May Christ always light my way.

I live today and everyday Through the mighty strength Of the Lord of Creation. Amen.

(attr. St. Patrick)

 

May the blessing of light be on you – light without and light within.  May the blessed sunlight shine on you like a great peat fire,  so that stranger and friend may come and warm themselves at it.  And may light shine out of your two eyes, like a candle set in the window of a house,  bidding the wanderer come in out of the storm. And may the blessing of the rain be on you,  may it beat upon your Spirit and wash it fair and clean, and leave there a shining pool where the blue of Heaven shines,  and sometimes a star.  And may the blessing of the earth be on you,  soft under your feet as you journey along life’s road.  And may the Lord of Creation bless you, and bless you kindly. Amen.

 

A great evening! Thanks everyone!

 

Third Space Lord’s Prayer

I was listening to a service on the radio a couple of weeks ago and the congregation recited the Lord’s Prayer.

Autumn Colour in the Park

Colours in the park on a sunny November morning.

So on a beautiful autumn morning we spent time in prayer using the Lord’s prayer as our model.

Christians seem to use this prayer in a variety of ways. Some us it as a template for the way to put prayers into words, others who prefer a daily ritual type of prayer see it as an important way of staying close to God by using the familiar words, others still like the communal act of praying the same words together as an act of unity.

To put the prayer in context, it was the way Jesus taught his disciples to pray in the middle of all the important teaching in the Sermon on the Mount about the way we should live. So I guess it is an important prayer.

Give us today our daily bread.

We read six different versions of the Lords Prayer to each other in pairs.

Including a paraphrase by Sarah Dylan Breuer, The Lord’s prayer from the New Zealand Prayer Book, Eugene H. Peterson’s version from The Message, the 1662 Prayer Book version and the Anglican Alternative service book. Plus these two that raised a smile:

Texting the Lord's prayerLord' Prayer in text speak

 

Following that we used the version of the Lord’s Prayer we are most familiar with to pray as we went on a slow walk. Taking each part and using it as a prompt for worship, confession, and praying for issues and people.

We were all given a part of the prayer and we were asked to come up with a short paraphrase of it, which we put together at the end and then read it aloud.

This is what we came up with:

The Lord’s Prayer by Third Space

God, who cares for us,

The wonder of your presence fills us with awe.

Your name, your very nature, is holy.

All creation resonates with it!

Let all people come to proclaim it!

May we move into your presence and unimpeded love.

Let not our will, but your will and purposes be fulfilled in our lives here on Earth.

Give us the material things you know we need to survive.

Release us – as indeed we release others – from the debt of wrong doing.

Strengthen us for difficult times.

Liberate us from all that is evil.

For You reign in majesty, in love,

 Power and glory from the beginning of time and forever more.

Amen

 bread broken

 

 

The meal

Reflections on the meal last Wednesday…

Lavish food and drink – a symbol of God’s generosity, a sense of a foretaste of the heavenly banquet…

 

Loaded plates

 

No skimping on puddingsWelcoming and welcoming back new and old friends…

Sending Peter and Uta with our blessing as they embark on the next part of their journey, moving away, starting afresh…

Good conversation, laughter, sharing bread and wine, knowing Jesus in our midst…

At the table

Feasting in every sense!

Dates for further meals to be released soon! Thank you to everyone for coming – I, for one, enjoyed your company tremendously!

 

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Wrestling with God at the bandstand

The park was bathed in sunshine and full of falling leaves today – and it was glorious!

Autumn at the bandstand

 

Our focus was based on the brilliant book of meditations ‘Touching the Sacred’ by Chris Thorpe, based around paintings by Jake Lever. Today the image was of the hand of Jacob, held by the hand of the wrestler. Here’s our order of service, with the odd explanation thrown in:

 

Opening prayer    

O God who wrestles with us,

circle our hearts,

centre our minds,

still our bodies

be present to us now.

Amen.

 

Reading                       Genesis 32: 24-28

24 Jacob was left alone; and a man wrestled with him until daybreak. 25 When the man saw that he did not prevail against Jacob, he struck him on the hip socket; and Jacob’s hip was put out of joint as he wrestled with him. 26 Then he said, “Let me go, for the day is breaking.” But Jacob said, “I will not let you go, unless you bless me.” 27 So he said to him, “What is your name?” And he said, “Jacob.” 28 Then the man said, “You shall no longer be called Jacob, but Israel for you have striven with God and with humans, and have prevailed.”

Footnotes: Israel probably means ‘he struggles with God’.                                    

Reflection.  There is something so mysterious, unclear and intriguing about this ancient story. We thought of why Jacob might have been wrestling with the man / angel /God and how the Jews have struggled, how Jesus struggled, how we struggle in various ways… God calls us to engage with him, to wrestle with him in our doubts and frustrations and in what we pray for. We are called to keep holding on, not to let go – for even if the fight cannot be won, God will bless us and those we wrestle in prayer for.

And so we wrote names of individuals, of situations and of world crises and took these to inform our prayers as we walked around the park. For each prayer we were invited to tell God that we were not going to let him go – we were going to keep asking. And in using those words ‘I will not let you go’ we were invited to hear God echo his promise ‘I will not let you go’. These individual prayers finished with the words of invocation below.

 

O Wrestler

contending with us until daybreak,

holding us in the grip of your argument,

grappling with our questions and doubts,

You who strive to deepen us through struggle,

and strengthen us through adversity: Hold on to us now

in that fierce love that will never let us go.

Bless us, as you name us, as those who have prevailed.

 

Back together at the bandstand, now joined by some visitors who had stumbled across us, we prayed together these words:

 

God has stricken us                                         And will bind up our wounds

We bring to God all that is comfortable and self-satisfied in us, and we let it go.

God has stricken us                                         And will bind up our wounds

We bring to God the times we have avoided the struggle, taken the line of least resistance, colluded, and let them go.

God has stricken us                                         And will bind up our wounds

And because we believe that God does bless us, we bring to god our questions and doubts and uncertainties, and we offer them.

Bless us as you name us                                 As those who have prevailed

We bring to God all that we find hard to deal with, tasks, relationships, feelings, and we offer them

Bless us as you name us                                 As those who have prevailed

We bring to God all the messy, unwinnable struggles and adversities that we face, and offer them

Bless us as you name us                                 As those who have prevailed

 

We shared bread and wine as usual – focussing on the bread as the bread of struggle and the wine as the cup of blessing – God’s promise never to let us go. We closed with these words:

 

Closing prayer           O God of Jacob, struggle with us

                                    Through the dark nights of our questioning,

                                    Hang on to us when we lose hold of you.

                                    Cripple our false certainties,

                                    Disable our selfishness,

                                    That though we come stumbling and limping

                                    We may come to see you face to face. Amen.

 

It was a beautiful morning and one on which we all had time to pray about those things that most concern us. At Cool River café we shared news of those who continue to need those prayers and planned for Wednesday evening. Looking forward to that!

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Bonkers about Conkers

We arrived at the bandstand on this first cold misty autumn morning to be greeted with the sight of a table groaning under the weight of hundreds of conkers.

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We had been asked to bring along something that represented harvest to each one of us. To Paul conkers said it all. The wonderful shiny harvest of conkers reminded him of his childhood. This was the time of year when as a child he would find a huge shiny conker and take it into school imagining he was going to be a conker champion. As an adult seeing conkers each year reminds him of God’s good and wonderful provision.

05102014632Home grown vegetables, flowers, apples, cider, Fairtrade Coffee and a special watercolour painting were added to the table by others at the bandstand. Each of us saying how these things remind us of what God provides and blesses us with.

Paul then talked about the goodness of God on the one hand and the darkness of the human spirit on the other. We were challenged by his authentic look at our real natures and we thought about strife, challenges and down right evil things happening in our world. Spending time walking or sitting in the park we went away to pray.

 

 

To aid is in our prayers and to illustrate how God can cleanse and heal situations that we pray for Paul gave us two containers of liquid.  One containing red fluid and another clear fluid. *

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As we prayed we added the clear fluid drop by drop, prayer by prayer, to the red fluid and watched it change to a clear fluid.

Sharing our Companions Liturgy for bread and wine brought our time at the bandstand to an end.

Coffee and a warm café awaited us

 

 

PAUL ASKED US TO WEAR GLOVES FOR PROTECTION.

Paul used a popular chemistry demonstration that is often called turning water into wine or water into blood. It’s really a simple example of a pH indicator. A few drops of Phenolphthalein  was added to a glass bottle containing an alkali.  This resulted in the solution turning pink/cerise.  When hydrochloric acid was added to the pink solution it turned colourless once more.

Inspired!

We met on another lovely late summer morning and started our time of worship by listening to “He was Despised” from the Young Messiah by the New London Chorale.

We were asked to think about the times of difficulty that Jesus experienced in his life and how that correlates with our lives. Whatever we experience during our lifetimes we can take comfort from knowing that Jesus will have experienced just what we have and much more.

“Rejection, betrayal, bereavement, laughter, pain, ridicule, hunger, thirst, fun, death, sickness, hurt, fear, anger and tiredness are just some of the things Jesus would have known.”

Grayden then led by telling us of an inspirational character he had read about over the summer, Shusaku Endo

“For the past decade and a half I have been on a journey of re-thinking my evangelical Christian faith. During that time my image of Jesus has changed from a very triumphalistic one to the Jesus who is the Suffering Servant of Isaiah 53. I felt very inspired by reading about Endo’s journey, my image of Jesus had changed just as his had done. The Jesus I need is the Jesus who touched lepers, engaged with the marginalised , the failures and the not-good-enoughs, who forgave tax collectors and prostitutes and chatted with divorcees. I need the Jesus who shows us what God is really like, the Jesus who is always for us, and will never desert us or reject us. And I need this Jesus because I am a sinner!”

We were then sent off into the sunshine with the following questions to consider:

 

Endo challenges us to see “the Jesus who suffers with us and who allows for our weakness.”

Have you encountered this Jesus? Is this the Jesus you need and identify with?

If Jesus really was “wounded for our transgressions and crushed for our iniquities”, then Endo asks us to turn our imagination away from what he sees as the predominant Western image of Jesus, based on Roman images of glory and power, and to see the Jesus who “was despised and rejected, a man of sorrows and familiar with suffering.”

Endo believed that how we picture Jesus really matters. He is critical of Western Christianity for failing to depict the terrible rejection, sorrow and suffering that was so much part of God’s incarnation. Is that fair? Is Endo’s image of Jesus too skewed in the direction of suffering and rejection?

If we share Endo’s emphasis that focuses on Jesus as one who “was despised and rejected, a man of sorrows and familiar with suffering.” Does that image of Jesus help us to view other people differently, perhaps more compassionately?

Prayers

  • Thanksgiving about our relationship with Jesus

We were invited to write either a word or sentence of thanksgiving, these were our prayers;

Accompanied, New Beginnings, Forgiven, Always there, whole, Confiding in God, Believed in and Liked! Accepted, Unconditional, Jesus has shown me his amazing love through his people.

  • We prayed for those we knew who were grieving or sick or in need in any way
  • We prayed about areas of the world where there is conflict and suffering

 

Sharing bread and wine

We used “It would not have been God’s table” from Jonny Baker’s worship tricks as it seemed very appropriate.

In closing we were reminded that we can approach God’s throne of Grace with confidence as Jesus, who understands us is there speaking for us.

A sweep of biblical history at the bandstand

 

Steve led us this morning with the remit of taking us through the entire history of the Bible in approximately 30 minutes!  It was sunny and beautiful, but surrounded by the travelling fair! Despite that we managed to make it work – and it was great!

It was a time given over to allow us all to reflect and be quiet. The time fell into 4 sections. The first focussed on creation as we all faced the river and heard selected verses from Genesis 1 – 2. These words were taken from The Message and we were all struck by each of the readings in terms of their freshness and power, cutting through our over-familiarity with them. In this case, it was the generosity of God that particularly impacted on me.

We were all invited to create 7 words or images to reflect God’s creation and it was good seeing the different ideas emerge from everyone.

7 responses to the creation story

As we turned 90 degrees to face the town, Steve spoke of the Fall and our own personal ‘falls’ and we listened to words from Genesis 3.

Our third section, facing the third direction allowed us to focus on redemption. Here we assumed a bowed position as we received bread and heard Jesus’ words explaining the significance of the incarnation in John 6:31-33. Again the Message seemed to make Jesus’ words so much more accessible: ‘The real significance of that Scripture is not that Moses gave you bread from heaven, but that my Father is right now offering bread from heaven…’ This was followed by the last words from Jesus on the cross (Luke 23:44-46) as we ate the bread and raised our heads.

At stage 3 ½ (!) we heard Paul’s words from Romans 8:18-25 about all creation yearning for redemption. If you haven’t read those words from The Message, just read this:

18-21 That’s why I don’t think there’s any comparison between the present hard times and the coming good times. The created world itself can hardly wait for what’s coming next. Everything in creation is being more or less held back. God reins it in until both creation and all the creatures are ready and can be released at the same moment into the glorious times ahead. Meanwhile, the joyful anticipation deepens.

22-25 All around us we observe a pregnant creation. The difficult times of pain throughout the world are simply birth pangs. But it’s not only around us; it’s within us. The Spirit of God is arousing us within. We’re also feeling the birth pangs. These sterile and barren bodies of ours are yearning for full deliverance. That is why waiting does not diminish us, any more than waiting diminishes a pregnant mother. We are enlarged in the waiting. We, of course, don’t see what is enlarging us. But the longer we wait, the larger we become, and the more joyful our expectancy.

Following this we prayed. We took time to write our own responses to ideas linked to being saved, with headings:

I have been saved.     For the past and particularly for this past year, I give thanks for…

I am being saved.       Today I ask for…

I will be saved.           For this coming year I am trusting…

For those known to us undergoing difficult times – birth pangs – who need God’s saving power now…

For those yearning for help who are not known to us, but in situations we are aware of…

We shared our prayers for others and concluded with one hand on the shoulder of the person to the right of us – praying for one another and all named in our prayers, saying:

May the love of God the Father,

the saving power of God the Son

and the peace of God the Holy Spirit

fill you and reside in you,

today and in the year ahead.

 Amen.

Finally, facing the direction of the sun, we drank our cups of wine as we heard the promise of the consummation – the renewed heaven and earth, from Isaiah 25:6-10 and Revelation 21:1-8, with God moving into the neighbourhood and proclaiming ‘It’s happened’. Roll on that day! We finished with a commissioning blessing. Thanks Steve – it felt good to start the new academic year with a sense of being grounded in the very centre of the Christian tradition, being part of God’s work in the world from the start to the conclusion…

The world out there

Meeting outside to worship has been a revelation to me. Even in the most inclement of weather being outside beats looking at four walls, however beautifully they might be decorated.

 Scenery, flowers, plants and trees, changing seasons, bird song, people walking, children playing and meeting with a great bunch of people – what could be better?


So we miss our Bandstand Buddies when we go away on holiday. What did we do this time? Find a bandstand and think of you all.

Stories of Forgiveness

Ever wished you could spend Sunday mornings sunning yourself in the park instead of sitting inside the walls of a church. Well that was what we did at Third Space this morning. The sun shining and a warm gentle breeze led to a relaxed and I hope inspiring experience.

Barbara had come across a couple of moving items on her travels recently.

In Chester Cathedral: 

Judas Tree

In Hell there grew a Judas Tree
Where Judas hanged and died
Because he could not bear to see                                                    
His master crucified
Our Lord descended into Hell
And found his Judas there
For ever hanging on the tree
Grown from his own despair
So Jesus cut his Judas down
And took him in his arms
“It was for this I came” he said
“And not to do you harm
My Father gave me twelve good men
And all of them I kept
Though one betrayed and one denied
Some fled and others slept
In three days’ time I must return
To make the others glad
But first I had to come to Hell
And share the death you had
My tree will grow in place of yours
Its roots lie here as well
There is no final victory
Without this soul from Hell”
So when we all condemned him
As of every traitor worst
Remember that of all his men
Our Lord forgave him first

D. Ruth Etchells

In Norwich Cathedral in a little side chapel this prayer which had been found on a scrap of paper at Ravensbruck concentration camp during the Second World War.

O Lord, remember not only the men and women of good will but also those of ill will. But do not remember all the suffering they have inflicted upon us; remember the fruits we have bought, thanks to this suffering, our comradeship, our loyalty, our humility, the courage, the generosity, the greatness of heart which has grown out of this; and when they come to judgement, let all the fruits that we have borne be their forgiveness. Amen’.

 

Forgiveness – something in the Christian faith which is very distinctive. Something that sounds easy, but is not so easy to do.

We read some stories from The Forgiveness Project which uses the real stories of victims and perpetrators to explore concepts of forgiveness, and to encourage people to consider alternatives to resentment, retaliation and revenge.    www.theforgivenessproject.com

 

Some bible passages we considered around the subject:

Colossians 3:13 NIV

Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.

 

Ephesians 4:31-32 NIV

Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.

 

Matthew 18: 21-22 NIV

Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother when he sins against me? Up to seven times? “Jesus answered, “I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times.”

 

1 Corinthians 13:4 – 6 NIV

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonour others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.

 

Matthew 5:23-24 NIV

“Therefore, if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother has something against you, leave your gift there in front of the altar. First go and be reconciled to your brother; then come and offer your gift.”

 

Luke 6:37 NIV

Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven.

 

John 8:7 NIV

When they kept on questioning him, he straightened up and said to them, “If any one of you is without sin, let him be the first to throw a stone at her.”

 

Acts 7:59-60 NIV

While they were stoning him, Stephen prayed, “Lord Jesus, receive my spirit.” Then he fell on his knees and cried out, “Lord, do not hold this sin against them.” When he had said this, he fell asleep.

 

Luke 23:33-34 NIV

When they came to a place called the Skull, there they crucified him, along with the criminals – one on his right, the other on his left, Jesus said, “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.”

 

Luke 17:3-4 NIV

So watch yourselves. “If your brother sins, rebuke him, and if he repents forgive him. If he sins against you seven times in a day, and seven times comes back to you and says , ‘I repent,’ forgive him.”

 

Romans 12:20 NIV

On the contrary: “If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head.”

 

Sitting in the “Pews”

  What a good way to do church. Sitting in the sunshine reading inspiring stories.

 

 

Pentecost in the Park

D Day Bunting

 

 

 

 

Third Space commemorated D Day by stringing up bunting in the bandstand. Many of us had watched, read or listened to moving accounts of the Normany landings and the battle that followed, which freed Europe from the ideology of National Socialism. It is good to see that since then the countries who had been at war have joined together in peace.

“Blessed are the peacemakers” Matthew 5:9

The commemoration came at the same time as the festival of Pentecost – the birth of the church.

The Holy Spirit came upon the disciples and changed them from a group cowering, scared and hiding in a room to people who told others boldly about Jesus and his teachings.

May we in Third Space use the fruits of the Spirit – love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self control (Galatians 5:22-23) and bravely bring in the KIngdom of Jesus and his teachings.