Time by the river

 This Sunday we left the bandstand to reflect as we walked alongside the Derwent river in the park. Rivers feature large in the Bible and as we read different extracts from the Bible it all came to life somehow as we looked at the fast-flowing water and banks and trees…

 

We each had a large stone, a pen and leaves. Here are the words we used:

  1. Walking beside the river away from the town:

Ezekiel 47The River in the New Jerusalem. A prayer for the healing of the nations

Then he led me back to the bank of the river. 7 When I arrived there, I saw a great number of trees on each side of the river…12 Fruit trees of all kinds will grow on both banks of the river. Their leaves will not wither, nor will their fruit fail. Every month they will bear fruit, because the water from the sanctuary flows to them. Their fruit will serve for food and their leaves for healing.’

Find some leaves and write on them the names of nations in need of healing. Throw the leaves into the water and pray for the rise of peacemakers and the fall of warmongers…

 

  1. Going to the white water nearer the town and bridge…

Joshua 1– 4(selected verses) The crossing of the Jordan.  Claiming God’s help for others.

Cross this Jordan River, you and all the people. Cross to the country I’m giving to the People of Israel. I’m giving you every square inch of the land you set your foot on—just as I promised Moses.  ‘When you come to the edge of the Jordan’s waters, stand there on the river bank.’” Then Joshua addressed the People of Israel: “Attention! Listen to what God, your God, has to say. This is how you’ll know that God is alive among you… Look at what’s before you: the Chest of the Covenant. Think of it—the Master of the entire earth is crossing the Jordan as you watch. When the soles of the feet of the priests carrying the Chest of God, Master of all the earth, touch the Jordan’s water, the flow of water will be stopped—the water coming from upstream will pile up in a heap.” And that’s what happened. The river went dry all the way down to the Arabah Sea (the Salt Sea). And the people crossed, facing Jericho.  And there they stood; those priests carrying the Chest of the Covenant stood firmly planted on dry ground in the middle of the Jordan while all Israel crossed on dry ground. Finally the whole nation was across the Jordan, and not one wet foot…. “Each of you heft a stone to your shoulder, a stone for each of the tribes of the People of Israel, so you’ll have something later to mark the occasion. When your children ask you, ‘What are these stones to you?’ you’ll say, ‘The flow of the Jordan was stopped in front of the Chest of the Covenant of God as it crossed the Jordan—stopped in its tracks. These stones are a permanent memorial for the People of Israel.’”

Think about the barriers or hurdles in the way of people known to you who are facing a scary future or a life-changing event. God promises to ford such ‘rivers’ ahead of us and lead us to the other side in safety. Name those people who are on one side of their challenge. Pray that they will know God’s special help in leading them over. Take your stone and put it with the others to make our own reminder that today we have claimed God’s promises for those people.

 

 

  1. 3.     Returning to the central bridge opposite the bandstand…

Isaiah 43 Getting through rough waters. A prayer for yourself

43 1-4 But now, God’s Message,
the God who made you in the first place, Jacob,
the One who got you started, Israel:
“Don’t be afraid, I’ve redeemed you.
I’ve called your name. You’re mine.
When you’re in over your head, I’ll be there with you.
When you’re in rough waters, you will not go down.
When you’re between a rock and a hard place,
it won’t be a dead end—
Because I am God, your personal God,
The Holy of Israel, your Saviour.
I paid a huge price for you:
all of Egypt, with rich Cush and Seba thrown in!
That’s how much you mean to me!
That’s how much I love you!
I’d sell off the whole world to get you back,
trade the creation just for you.

5 “So don’t be afraid: I’m with you.

What is it that you are facing now, or will potentially face that concerns or frightens you? Hear God’s promise to you – that there is nothing that will overwhelm you. You are loved beyond your wildest imagination! Cross the bridge as a symbol of that successful crossing in the future.

On your way across hear God say ‘I’ll be there with you… Don’t be afraid’

 On your way back place yourself in God’s protection. You may want to use one or more of the following responses:

 ‘I will trust in you’… ‘I receive your love’… ‘You are with me’…

 

  1. To the weeping beech…

So much of what we had reflected on was about remembering – remembering the promise of the renewed earth to come, of God’s help and rescue… and now we were remembering what Jesus did for us. The bread we shared was a rosemary foccacia – rosemary being traditionally linked to remembering. And so we shared bread and wine in communion with all those we had held in prayer…

Renewed prayer for 2014

At the start of each year we review our prayers from the previous one,  We write our prayers on labels and attach them to a walking stick which hangs up at Holly House where we meet every other week. These hang as a continual reminder to pray for those we know who are in need.

In reviewing our prayers from 2013 we removed the labels containing them, gave thanks, then renewed our commitment to pray for those we know. The past prayers were symbolically offered up to God as we placed them in flames and watched the smoke rise.

May our prayers be like incense.

Epiphany

In celebrating Epiphany Sunday we learnt about gifts, journey, stars, and revisited thoughts about who the Magi were and where they might have come from.

Epiphany means manifestation, appearance revelation. So it celebrates the revealing of Jesus to the Gentiles, represented by the Magi.

Reading Matthew 2: 1 – 18

Thoughts on the Magi

There would not have been three of them, they were not kings, we don’t know if they were wise, and they did not ride camels. They would have had a large entourage, including soldiers and servants. They travelled from the east probably from either Petra in modern day Jordan, Babylon in modern day Iraq or Persia, modern day Iran. The most likely of these is Persia and in that case they would have been Zoroastrian priests, worshippers of fire and light.

Gifts

Gifts of gold, frankincense and myrrh are typical gifts to offer to a king or to a deity. Symbolic for Jesus:

Gold is a sign of earthly kingship

Frankincense is a symbol of deity

Myrrh an embalming oil – foreshadowing his death

 

Journey

In our reading from Matthew it says that the Magi returned to their “country by another road”. Perhaps some of us will have to take roads we never expected in 2014, whether they involve employment, health, relationships, retirement, education, economic circumstances – who knows?

So if Epiphany brings unexpected challenges or opportunities or sorrows or joys, let us try to remember that whatever road we may have to travel in 2014 God loves us and will always be our companion on the journey.

Stars

The guiding star figures large in the Magi’s story. We had a wonder through the park with the following meditation:

Why did the magi follow the star why was it a sign?

  • What path would you choose to follow in 2014?

The magi were warned not to follow the same path on their way home.

  • Sometimes life takes us on unexpected journeys, consider your journey so far and reflect on times when you have been sure of God’s presence or purpose.

The Greeks believed at the time of birth a new star was hung in the night sky as a gift that would serve as a guiding light over each person’s life journey.

  • Jesus your guiding light will journey with you in 2014

Following this activity we had a bash at making some rustic stars from the twigs that had been collected from around the park.

An “A star” star

 

Sometimes we have to just accept failure.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Some were more successful than others! 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Prayers 

The area where the Magi may have journeyed or come from is an area of the world where there is conflict, unrest, war and suffering. We prayed for Iran, Iraq, Syria, Israel, Palestine, Jordan and Egypt (where Jesus was a refugee).

God,

this epiphany

seed us with hope

and empower us to be

fuel,

light,

fire,

action,

love

for the coming

of your Kingdom.

with thanks to THE TEXT THIS WEEK

 

A Blessing for 2014.

may you take the risk of bringing your vulnerable, broken self and not your sorted self so that the gospel can flow

may you take small actions that become graced in the least predictable ways

may you resist the temptation towards a theology of answers

may you remember to pause and reflect

may you always be willing to listen

may the deep joy of the holy spirit make you a bringer of fun, play and laughter

may you accept the invitation to express venturesome love

may you take the risk of conversation that is two way

may your faith guide you to choose wisely and ethically for the good of others

may you develop the practices of soft eyes, compassionate responses and hospitality

may the holy spirit enliven your imagination such that you find the world magical, enchanted, awe-inspiring and breathtakingly wonderful

amen

adapted from Jonny Baker worship tricks

 

May Jesus be your guiding light throughout 2014 

 

 

 

Festivities

The last month has found members of Third Space practising our culinary skills for not only have we been feeding our friends and families over the Christmas period, but we seem to have extended the festivities into the Advent period too.

In sharing food together we are following the example of Jesus with his disciples and followers (and sometimes his dissenters) and also the early church. Christians met together over a meal in each others homes, shared bread and wine and remembered what Jesus had done for them.

 

  • We prepared an Advent meal for those who come to Soul Space – which was received with enthusiasm and appreciation, the feedback was very encouraging.
  • We shared an Advent breakfast a tradition we borrowed from our Northern European brothers and sisters.
  • Our pub night involved us in making crackers for our meal together. Great fun when you make a cracker for someone you know with an appropriate joke and wise saying – not to mention designing a hat for them. We had quite a few of the pub customers intrigued and asking us what we were up to.
  • Finally we shared our Christmas meal together and celebrated Kitty’s 18th birthday.

 

Happy birthday Kitty

Remember – Give Thanks

We met this morning on Remembrance Sunday. Greeting us at the Bandstand was two slabs of clay, bread, wine, sunflower seeds and a sunflower seed head.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Who do we remember?

We remember those who sacrificed their lives for their country, but it can seem a bit removed from our experience, unless we know someone killed or injured in recent conflicts.

What are we giving thanks for?

Around this time of year we give thanks for God’s provision through services of Harvest Thanksgiving. Again, unless we work in farming or grow our own food we can be removed from the relevance of Harvest. We can buy our food at the supermarket regardless of seasonality.

Why did we have sunflower seeds?

I brought along the sunflower seeds that were harvested from three plants (grown from three seeds) planted earlier in the year to illustrate God’s amazingly abundant provision. Also the sunflowers had always reminded me of Anthony, a troubled man who had joined us at the same time as we planted the sunflower seeds and who has since sadly died. I wanted to remember Anthony who had his own internal battles to fight and who I hope felt love and acceptance at Third Space for the short time we knew him.

Generous God, Feast maker,
Thank you for the provision of food and friends,

for those we know and those we have known.

Provider God, protector and sustainer,

we welcome you among us this morning.


Look at the sunflower head and remember the seeds planted… marvel at how many came from so few.

Take some sunflower seeds and give thanks for the plentiful provision of God.

Spend some time offering something to God and ask that, however small, it can be used in His Kingdom to great effect.

Push seeds into clay to form the work thanks

Remembrance prayers

  • Take a sunflower seed and remember those we know who have died, those who we have been privileged to know.
  • Take a sunflower seed and remember those who are in conflict situations right now both soldiers and civilians.
  • Take a sunflower seed and remember those who laid down their lives in conflicts for us.
  • Take a sunflower seed and remember that we should be working to bring about the Kingdom of God in a world of need and conflict.

Two minutes silence

Place seeds in clay to write the word remember

 


Take a break

As Third Space is by it’s very nature a small group, it is something of a commitment for those who agree to lead the weekly bandstand meetings. Many of the members of the group are either involved in education or have children who have school holidays. So it was decided at the outset that every seven weeks or so we would have a week when we did not meet. This we call a Sabbath. It means we can take a break away, spend time with our wider family or simply have a lie in.

Although we call this our Sabbath it is probably more like a Sabbatical which has it’s roots in the same Hebrew word shmita which literally means release.

We were advised by Ian Adams (http://inthebellyofthebigfish.blogspot.co.uk) who was our mentor when we began Third Space to take a Sabbath or Sabbatical and I would pass this advice onto others who may be thinking of starting to meet as we do. Nothing would be so disheartening as preparing a wonderful, inspirational time of worship (and believe me this is what they are) when most of the group are away on holiday.

So this Sunday 27th and next Wednesday 30th we have been released…

But the most brilliant thing is – it is amazingly good to start again after the break.

Life’s like that

Ever found yourself making plans and then when you try to carry them out you get diverted or stuck and then end up in a place you didn’t want to be in?

Well our Third Space walk was a bit like that on Sunday. We set off from the Jug and Glass in Lea intending to do a circular walk, call at a tiny church and end our excursion with a pub lunch at the afore mentioned hostelry. We walked too slowly, got into all sorts of mud, missed a turning and ended up miles from where we should have been only minutes before the time our table had been booked for lunch.

Well if you end up in a place where you don’t want to be you can always call for help from your friends and that is just what we did. Rescue came in the form of two cars which drove us to the pub where we arrived rather red faced but then had a delicious lunch.

This is the Table

It is our practise at Third Space to meet together for a meal every so often. These occasions are always very special as we sit with others with whom we can really be ourselves. Conversations vary from those that are deep and profound to those that are light hearted and full of laughter. Last night was no exception:

We began our meal with some lovely liturgy;

 

This is the table of new expectations

This is the table where everyone is welcome

This is the table for eating and drinking

This is the table for sharing stories, for laughter and fun

This is the table for honest conversation and being real

This is the table of friends and companions

This is the table where there is safety and acceptance

This is the table that is the natural place to be

This is the table where strength is restored

This is the table of Jesus our lord

This is the table of our community

 Jonny Baker (adapted)

People were asked to pen additional lines to this liturgy. These were read out at the close of our meal.

 

Soups, cheeses, home made breads and wonderful puddings followed along with prayer for those known to us who are in need at the moment. During the meal we shared bread and wine.

This is the Table Third Space Version

This is the Wabi-Sabi * table where the broken and bruised meet the God who upcycles

This is the table where Martin, and Francis and Desmond would feel at home  (ie Luther-King, Pope, Tutu)

This is the table where we practise for the Big Banquet

This is the table where we share lives …

This is the table where memories of past and present members of Third Space meet…

This is the table where we are joined by the Bread of Life

This is the table of laughter

This is the table of exploration

This is the table of NO homework!

This is the table of sharing

This is the table of the visionary united…

 

*  Wabi  connotes rustic simplicity, freshness or quietness, and can be applied to both natural and human-made objects, or understated elegance. It can also refer to quirks and anomalies arising from the process of construction, which add uniqueness and elegance to the object. Sabi is beauty or serenity that comes with age, when the life of the object and its impermanence are evidenced in its patina and wear, or in any visible repairs.

 

Some truths are unbelievable

As we left the pub last night the barmaid said “Your group sounded great fun tonight”.

What were we doing?

We were reading some crazy news reports that had some even more bizarre untruths added to them. We had to guess what was true and what was untrue.

It was a bit like “What the Papers Say”, but with impressions and stand up comedy added.

The subjects from the news;

  • super moons,
  • a record attempt to get hundreds of dogs to sit or lie down at the same time,
  • overdosing on Viagra
  • motorway speed limits
  • “Hitler moustache” on Nigel Farage
  • bugs from space
  • Scotty from Startrek having his remains sent into space
  • snakes on planes
  • a child called North West

 

Snowdrops and stones

Well it was a stunning morning at the bandstand today. It was never truer to think of the words ‘Morning has broken like the first morning’, seeing the bright sunshine cutting through the layer of mist, hanging in the valley. Just exquisitely beautiful.

We began our time with words written by Steve:

Space for the 3

LEADER: Creator God, in this place and at this time, for this place and for this time

ALL: We praise you

L: For the richness of this precise moment – unparalleled in human history

ALL:  We are in awe

L: For the autumn palette, the falling leaves – each one if caught 7 lucky hours!

ALL: All this proclaims YOU – our Yahweh Creator.

L:   Creator God, designer, provider, nurturer

ALL: This is your space given to us and we thank you

L:  And for Jesus, your gift of yourself to us, our Saviour, our Redeemer

ALL: We praise you

L: For the wealth of his life spent in serving others and us

ALL: We are in awe

L: For carrying our burdens to the cross, for dying and rising

ALL: All this proclaims YOU – our Yahweh Creator

L: Jesus, born and baptised as one of us

ALL: This is your space given to us and we thank you

L: And for your hovering life-giving Spirit

ALL: We praise you

L: For your wineskin bursting, mustard seed growing, transforming work

ALL: We are in awe

L: For indwelling our lives, our bodies and drawing us to you

ALL: This is your space given to us and we thank you

L: Space for the 3 in our Third space

ALL: AMEN!

Then we referred back to our prayer evening on Wednesday – part of which involved holding stones and then swapping them for others to carry during the week, as we shared prayer needs and burdens with each other. We updated one another on those prayer needs and took 5-10 minutes to carry those prayers with us, stone in hand, reflecting also on the following verses and letting them inform our prayers:

Numbers 11 14 I cannot carry all these people by myself; the burden is too heavy for me…

16 The Lord said to Moses:.17’ I will come down…  you will not have to carry it alone.’

 

Psalm 68 19 Praise be to the Lord, to God our Saviour,  who daily bears our burdens.

Matthew 11 28 ‘Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. 29 Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.

Galatians 6 Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfil the law of Christ.

Isaiah 46  3 I… have carried since you were born. Even to your old age and grey hairs
I am he, I am he who will sustain you. I have made you and I will carry you; I will sustain you and I will rescue you.

 

Later we took snowdrop bulbs and planted them in various beds in the park, placing our stones next to them – as a symbol of hope and resurrection…

 

We finished with bread and wine, using words Steve wrote in the past for us:

 

Perspectives – bread and wine

Bread – in all its variety – wholegrain, white bleached, flat, mother’s pride, granary, unleavened, pitta and crusty, soft and seeded. It is just bread – a staple – food for all, for the rich and the poor.

But in your outstretched hands, in your body, you transform this element into spiritual nourishment which in turn transacts our horizontal dimension with your vertical reality. We thank you that we stand in that crossing place once again.

For on the night before he died….Jesus gave thanks….took and broke….and shared….saying, “Take, eat, feed and remember – it is my body.”

ALL: We share this bread as one people with the risen Christ in our midst.

 

Wine – in all its variety – white and red, flat and sparkling, oaky and tannin rich, young and old, chardonnay and merlot, grenache and cabernet, old world and new world. It is just wine – a staple of celebration for all.

But in your wounded hands you transform this element to seal the new transaction between God and us. This wine spilt opens the new way, curtains rent asunder, the mundane becomes translucent with your presence. We thank you that we stand in that place once again.

For on the night before he died, Jesus gave thanks….took the cup….and shared it….saying, “Take, drink, it is given for you. It is my blood.”

ALL: We share this wine as one people with the risen Christ in our midst.

So we have eaten and drunk this transforming meal which brings heaven to earth. As Kingdom builders, we journey with Christ our Lord.

ALL: AMEN!

 

Perhaps it was the beautiful sunshine, maybe the sharing of heart-felt concerns… but there was a real sense of God’s presence this morning and once again, my friends, it was VERY good to be with you at the bandstand!